Krista Parrish: Blog
Poems - July 27, 2008
These poems are not written by me. My father forwarded me a page with poetry specific to losing a immediate family member such as a son, daughter, brother or sister. These two poems could not express any more perfect the feelings & thoughts that run through me:
The Long Forever
You left us so quickly,
there were no goodbyes.
How long this forever,
your death and our lives.
The sadness, the anger,
the loneliness of three,
preferring four always,
how small, this new we.
Why Not Ask Me?
I hear it again and again,
one friend asked another how I've been. How hard, really, would it be to pick up the phone and just ask me?
The Long Forever
You left us so quickly,
there were no goodbyes.
How long this forever,
your death and our lives.
The sadness, the anger,
the loneliness of three,
preferring four always,
how small, this new we.
Why Not Ask Me?
I hear it again and again,
one friend asked another how I've been. How hard, really, would it be to pick up the phone and just ask me?
Officially a home owner! - June 28, 2008
As of June 18th, my husband and I are officially home owners. We bought our first house and it's awesome!!! The music studio is up and running and we are just waiting for the drum kit (thanks to Corey) to arrive!! Perfect for jamming, recording and a wonderful quiet enviroment for writing which I have been doing lots of :) The best part is we can play as loud as we want whenever we want-no more renting for us (I don't reccomend that to any hard working professional musician!!!) I also can play my piano now-thank GOD! I'm in the middle of producing a solo album with a lot of guitar instrumental and tap guitar music but I will be back with the band and hopefully finishing up the funky sultry album, "A Genuine Distraction" this fall. We also welcomed a new little baby into our family named Delilah who we could not resist at a pet store this past June...she is the best! I will be posting new songs on my website and myspace throughout the summer so check in with me and see what I'm up to and look for my gigs posted this fall ;-)
Music, Life, Stuff... - April 21, 2008
I want to thank everyone who has been so compassionate during this difficult time in my families life. It's definitely going to be and has been a very tough year but I'm positive that my brother is living on and his spirit protects me. Though it has been an overwhelming time in my life, I have found comfort in writing music and playing. I decided to take a break from performing for the summer for a couple of reasons. A. My husband and I just bought a house and will be in the midst of moving and settling into a new area. B. I need to heal and I need time to put things in perspective, do a little soul searching which I think will most definitely bring some art out of me and into your ears :) There is nothing you can say to someone who has lost someone close to them that makes them feel better. There is nothing you can do but so many people let me know that we were in their thoughts and that Corey was in their prayers and it really makes a difference. I can't even begin to unfold my brothers mind. He was so clever, funny, charming. If I were God, I'd want him to. I'm so honored that I got to be his sister. I hope he hears me. I know I'll never find another musician who could fill his shoes...we just had this tight bond where anything he played complimented and enriched what I was playing and vice versa. I've gone through a roller coaster of emotions and unfortunately the days are not getting easier without him. I have peaceful moments and I have moments I cannot bear. I would do anything for him to come back and play a tune with me! Until I can play with him again, I do plan to play his music and our music out again and record.
Life has never been hard until now. Music has never been so easy. It flows like a river out of me and sometimes I just know Corey is playing right through me. I've been able to do things in the last month on guitar that he tried to show me countless times with complete ease. I never thought I could play again but now I know that it's the only thing I'll ever do again.
Corey,
The words "I miss you" seem so redundant but I just do. I miss seeing your face and messin' up your hair. I miss you pulling my bandana off my head and me freaking out! I miss being startled and screaming when you'd jump out from behind a door. I miss hearing you gently play guitar. I miss how when I still lived at home, we'd hang out in my room, watching movies and playing guitar. I miss all your funny faces. I miss you showing me how to play a song. I miss showing you too. I miss your voice & your laugh. I miss you, Lauren, Steve and I chillun' at our place. I miss having someone in the world I could relate to on that level. I miss you tickling the hell out of me until I couldn't breathe. I miss you making me listen to music you liked in my car. I miss arguing over the front seat in dad's car. I miss you coming to me for advice & I miss giving it to you. I miss seeing your phone number on the caller ID. I miss "made". I miss everyday and every night I ever got to know, love and be around you. I miss you.
Love,
your big sis
Life has never been hard until now. Music has never been so easy. It flows like a river out of me and sometimes I just know Corey is playing right through me. I've been able to do things in the last month on guitar that he tried to show me countless times with complete ease. I never thought I could play again but now I know that it's the only thing I'll ever do again.
Corey,
The words "I miss you" seem so redundant but I just do. I miss seeing your face and messin' up your hair. I miss you pulling my bandana off my head and me freaking out! I miss being startled and screaming when you'd jump out from behind a door. I miss hearing you gently play guitar. I miss how when I still lived at home, we'd hang out in my room, watching movies and playing guitar. I miss all your funny faces. I miss you showing me how to play a song. I miss showing you too. I miss your voice & your laugh. I miss you, Lauren, Steve and I chillun' at our place. I miss having someone in the world I could relate to on that level. I miss you tickling the hell out of me until I couldn't breathe. I miss you making me listen to music you liked in my car. I miss arguing over the front seat in dad's car. I miss you coming to me for advice & I miss giving it to you. I miss seeing your phone number on the caller ID. I miss "made". I miss everyday and every night I ever got to know, love and be around you. I miss you.
Love,
your big sis
Tuned In - January 31, 2008
Again I want to thank my fans for their love and support and eagerness to see my band on 6ABC! YOU ALL ROCK!!!
Many new things happening these days...we are in the midst of auditioning drummers. Sad to say goodbye to Mr. Brown but looking forward to welcoming a new flavor and getting out there and performing soon!
It's the dead of winter but hybernation is not in our cards...we will be busy with the album and some shows here and there so catch up with us when you can! I, of course, will be out and about doing solo performances and you can catch me on the radio next Friday-read about that in the "live" section of my website.
On a sadder note, my kitty Desmond murdered my fish two nights ago. RIP Gilly.
I'd like to think it was an accident ;o)
Many new things happening these days...we are in the midst of auditioning drummers. Sad to say goodbye to Mr. Brown but looking forward to welcoming a new flavor and getting out there and performing soon!
It's the dead of winter but hybernation is not in our cards...we will be busy with the album and some shows here and there so catch up with us when you can! I, of course, will be out and about doing solo performances and you can catch me on the radio next Friday-read about that in the "live" section of my website.
On a sadder note, my kitty Desmond murdered my fish two nights ago. RIP Gilly.
I'd like to think it was an accident ;o)
Check out our slideshow! - January 31, 2008
On with it! - November 17, 2007
"Everything happens for a reason"...
I'm sticking to that line! My long awaited albums release has been pushed back to Spring but I'm glad that we are taking more time to fine tune things and I'm even more psyched that we'll be releasing it right when the weather is warming up and you just wanna get a new CD to listen to on a car ride to the shore ;o) The EP I'm releasing next month will give people a taste of "A GENUINE DISTRACTION".
I had my photo shoot yesterday for my 08' promo and album cover picture-I'm very excited to see how they turned out!!
We're working with a horn player these days (Mark Albright) and it's really adding an even sexier feel to the songs. I'm very anxious to unveil our stuff at the TIN ANGEL on December 19th. I'm anticipating a great turn out for the taping of 6 ABC's TUNED IN :)
I get to open for a fabulous guitar player, JIM WEIDER tonight!! I can't wait to hear his new band (he plays with members from Santana and some other heavy hitters!!)
We have a new addition to our family, Desmond. I never thought of myself as a "cat person"...always a "dog person" but I'm happy to say... I'm both!!
There is something mysterious about kittys and I'm inspired to write this way--stay tuned to see what developes.
I'm sticking to that line! My long awaited albums release has been pushed back to Spring but I'm glad that we are taking more time to fine tune things and I'm even more psyched that we'll be releasing it right when the weather is warming up and you just wanna get a new CD to listen to on a car ride to the shore ;o) The EP I'm releasing next month will give people a taste of "A GENUINE DISTRACTION".
I had my photo shoot yesterday for my 08' promo and album cover picture-I'm very excited to see how they turned out!!
We're working with a horn player these days (Mark Albright) and it's really adding an even sexier feel to the songs. I'm very anxious to unveil our stuff at the TIN ANGEL on December 19th. I'm anticipating a great turn out for the taping of 6 ABC's TUNED IN :)
I get to open for a fabulous guitar player, JIM WEIDER tonight!! I can't wait to hear his new band (he plays with members from Santana and some other heavy hitters!!)
We have a new addition to our family, Desmond. I never thought of myself as a "cat person"...always a "dog person" but I'm happy to say... I'm both!!
There is something mysterious about kittys and I'm inspired to write this way--stay tuned to see what developes.
say goodbye to summer :( - August 31, 2007
Well that went fast! It was a great summer though-well, we still have a few weeks left but after Labor Day it always feels like the END.
My album is coming along nicely--slowly but nicely.
It's definitely a collection of sultry tunes-a sexy album for ya all.
I plan to chill out a little before the CD is released--not do so many gigs and relax a little before it's time to promote " A Genuine Distraction". It was a busy summer for me...Steve & I only had one weekend to go away this summer :(
My last grandparent passed away last week--what a wake up call...life is short.
In loving memory of
Liberta M. Blee 04-30-28 to 08-21-07.
My album is coming along nicely--slowly but nicely.
It's definitely a collection of sultry tunes-a sexy album for ya all.
I plan to chill out a little before the CD is released--not do so many gigs and relax a little before it's time to promote " A Genuine Distraction". It was a busy summer for me...Steve & I only had one weekend to go away this summer :(
My last grandparent passed away last week--what a wake up call...life is short.
In loving memory of
Liberta M. Blee 04-30-28 to 08-21-07.
FREAKIN' HOT! - August 8, 2007
For the first time in my life I do not have central air and now I sadly understand what people go through during heat waves. Thank God I have a pool though-I don't know what I'd do! The summer is almost coming to an end and its been a great one-a hot one-great none the less. I played a lot of fun shows this summer but I'm really excited about my new album and just getting it finished and out there already. Most of you have heard a lot of the songs live that will be on "A Genuine Distraction". The album will be fuller versions of what you've heard me sing alone live. Very exciting! I'm breakin' a sweat just typing! ugh! complain complain complain...
Settling in - June 18, 2007
We are finally settled into our new home. It's very spacious but extremely cozy. I've been enjoying the pool ;) Shows have been going well thus far-really enjoyed myself at Tin Angel and was stoked that they recorded my set. I have one of the songs up on my LISTEN page if you're interested in hearing it.
I've been watching the news a lot lately and it seems like there is always some famous blonde who is in distress hogging camera time...first it was Anna Nicole, then Brittany Spears and now Paris Hilton. At one time it was Martha Stewart. Enough already! I'm so tired of hearing about these women with their ridiculous problems that no real person can identify with. There are so many issues to report about that are of far more importance. Let's start with the US troop casualities from the war in Iraq...and Paris is crying about being in a jail cell for a few days for something she did that was AGAINST THE LAW-GET OVER IT! She could have killed someone-she's lucky for this outcome. Let's hear more about why a hispanic woman was arrested instead of treated for her illness in an emergency room and died before being put into the police car. What the hell is wrong with people? Her death could have certainly been prevented had the nurses and doctors been doing their job correctly instead of judging from afar. I read a comment from a firefighter complaining about the people who were outraged at this. He complained of having to deal with crazy patients all the time and people outraged by this should shut the **** up. He was basically saying this woman didn't deserve to live and that is why she was denied help. That is not up to a doctor or nurse or HIM!
If that was HIS mother, sister or daughter, he may feel differently. Where is the compassion? You hardly ever hear about New Orleans and the hurricane katrina victims. They still need help...they're still trying to rebuild their homes and lives. I can't imagine how difficult it must be for them. There are so many pets that still need homes too. If you're thinking of getting a pet-check into rescuing one first and see if their is an animal out there that would be a good fit for you and your home. There are too many sitting in little cages who deserve to be running around, playing and providing compansionship. It's also cheaper to adopt than to get a pet from a breeder or pet store. Many people want puppies and think they won't be able to find one at a shelter but that is not true. They often rescue females who are pregnant or recently had babies and they need a home for them as well. Go to PETFINDER.COM and you can put in all the info. you are looking for in a pet and then you can see picture and read about each one. You're sure to find the perfect pet and be saving an animal at the same time!!
I've been watching the news a lot lately and it seems like there is always some famous blonde who is in distress hogging camera time...first it was Anna Nicole, then Brittany Spears and now Paris Hilton. At one time it was Martha Stewart. Enough already! I'm so tired of hearing about these women with their ridiculous problems that no real person can identify with. There are so many issues to report about that are of far more importance. Let's start with the US troop casualities from the war in Iraq...and Paris is crying about being in a jail cell for a few days for something she did that was AGAINST THE LAW-GET OVER IT! She could have killed someone-she's lucky for this outcome. Let's hear more about why a hispanic woman was arrested instead of treated for her illness in an emergency room and died before being put into the police car. What the hell is wrong with people? Her death could have certainly been prevented had the nurses and doctors been doing their job correctly instead of judging from afar. I read a comment from a firefighter complaining about the people who were outraged at this. He complained of having to deal with crazy patients all the time and people outraged by this should shut the **** up. He was basically saying this woman didn't deserve to live and that is why she was denied help. That is not up to a doctor or nurse or HIM!
If that was HIS mother, sister or daughter, he may feel differently. Where is the compassion? You hardly ever hear about New Orleans and the hurricane katrina victims. They still need help...they're still trying to rebuild their homes and lives. I can't imagine how difficult it must be for them. There are so many pets that still need homes too. If you're thinking of getting a pet-check into rescuing one first and see if their is an animal out there that would be a good fit for you and your home. There are too many sitting in little cages who deserve to be running around, playing and providing compansionship. It's also cheaper to adopt than to get a pet from a breeder or pet store. Many people want puppies and think they won't be able to find one at a shelter but that is not true. They often rescue females who are pregnant or recently had babies and they need a home for them as well. Go to PETFINDER.COM and you can put in all the info. you are looking for in a pet and then you can see picture and read about each one. You're sure to find the perfect pet and be saving an animal at the same time!!
Extremely grateful - May 10, 2007
I was overwhelmed by the volume of response I got from my mailer this week asking my fans for a little help! I so appreciate each and every one of you for your loyal support and belief in my music! The emails are still pouring in. I'm such a lucky gal :)
Friday! - May 4, 2007
The sun is bright today! Perfect weather for First Friday. I wanted to let everyone know that I will be singing tonight w/ Christy Jefferson around 8PM at a vigil for Travis Manion, a soldier at the ripe age of 26 who lost his life fighting the war in Iraq.
I am honored to making this appearance and my thoughts and prayers are with Travis' family. A second soldier, Colby Umbrell (also 26 yrs. old) was also killed and we will be remembering and honoring him tonight as well.
This event will take place at the corner of Main and Hamilton in Doylestown PA.
I am honored to making this appearance and my thoughts and prayers are with Travis' family. A second soldier, Colby Umbrell (also 26 yrs. old) was also killed and we will be remembering and honoring him tonight as well.
This event will take place at the corner of Main and Hamilton in Doylestown PA.
May is almost here! - April 27, 2007
I wish the warm sunny weather could have stuck around for my gig @ Milkboy Acoustic Cafe tomorrow but I guess it's just that time of year. It's been a busy week for me and I'm so glad it's Friday!! My recording project is coming along nicely, slightly behind schedule but things are falling into place. I'll be hitting the studio with my band on July 1st for what I hope is the last sesssion before the album's final mix.
I've been addicted to this new show on FX called The Riches. If you haven't seen it, I strongly suggest you try to catch it b/c it's so good!
last night I dreampt I was in the show ha ha. It's on Monday's at 10pm and then again at 11pm-I watch it both times just in case I miss anything the first time round ;) I finally saw the much talked about movie "Borat". All I can say is "HA HA HA HA".
Hope to you see you at Milkboy tomorrow!
I've been addicted to this new show on FX called The Riches. If you haven't seen it, I strongly suggest you try to catch it b/c it's so good!
last night I dreampt I was in the show ha ha. It's on Monday's at 10pm and then again at 11pm-I watch it both times just in case I miss anything the first time round ;) I finally saw the much talked about movie "Borat". All I can say is "HA HA HA HA".
Hope to you see you at Milkboy tomorrow!
One more thought for this week ;) - April 20, 2007
The sun has arrived and I'm so grateful!! Now THIS is what I call a Spring day and I do intend to take advantage of it...right after I clean my house, do the laundry, feed the dogs, make some phone calls, and ...forget all that, I'm going outside right now!
Before I do though, I want thank everyone who left comments in the guestbook thus far. I really appreciate all your support and kind words. It's so great to wake up to such friendly feedback!! Enjoy the weather this weekend and get outside as much as possible :)
Before I do though, I want thank everyone who left comments in the guestbook thus far. I really appreciate all your support and kind words. It's so great to wake up to such friendly feedback!! Enjoy the weather this weekend and get outside as much as possible :)